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Joan's avatar

Life used to be like this in the 1960’s.

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Sana Ali's avatar

Have been mulling this over since I read your comment. You're right, life then was based more on quality over quantity, a slower pace, and an emphasis on thoughtfulness which threads through many of these.

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Joan's avatar

Yes! Thank you. It is so difficult - and more so than ever before - for younger generations to understand what life was like for older generations. My mother was born 1921, genteel upper working class. My father was born 1904, orphaned age 4, and lived a huge self-made Jack London type life. My husband also has an incredible life story growing up in Spain and they still have a much slower and “curated” lifestyle which I love♥️

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Katrine's avatar

Rings that clink ✨

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Sana Ali's avatar

right?? ✨

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Lavender Day's avatar

I sat in front of a 84 year old lady in church this morning with arm bracelets that clacked together when she turned the pages in her well worn Bible, and she wore a fashionable green dress and big pearly earrings, and I personally think that is the height of chicness.

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Sana Ali's avatar

I couldn’t agree more!

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Chai and chats's avatar

Resonate with so many on the list!

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Sana Ali's avatar

It's a long one, but there were so many pieces I wanted to share. Happy to hear you connected it with :)

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Georgette's avatar

I love this entire list and agree with everything!

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Sana Ali's avatar

I love hearing that. So glad you resonated!

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maryse's avatar

This list reminds me of an older cousin who was always very chic but also very approachable.

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Sana Ali's avatar

I love that. Chicness isn’t about snobbery - they sound lovely 💕

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maryse's avatar

She was.

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Sana Ali's avatar

♥️♥️

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Noemi's avatar

1, 2, 3: yesss

6: I’d love to have a Cartier watch, but all made of steel

8: I totally agree

9: I love them

11: of course

12: always

13: Violette’s vanity is probably one of the most famous! The wallpaper is so beautiful

15: 🤍

16: hopefully I have

17: I’d love to do it but I’m still not comfortable about it

18: 💖

22, 23: good manners are incredibly underrated

24: true

25: 📖🖤

Such a good reading!

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Sana Ali's avatar

Loved cross referencing your thoughts 😌 Perhaps taking a book to a cafe will make it less intimidating for a solo date ♥️.

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Noemi's avatar

Hi Sana! Good idea. When people see a woman alone, somewhere, often think she’s looking for company 🙄

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Carolynne Alexander's avatar

* waves hand in a circle *

This, all of this 🤍

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Sana Ali's avatar

Love this visual because I talk with my hands and know exactly what you mean.

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Kaye Bassey's avatar

Yes to absolutely all of these! Audrey was really the blue print, wasnt she

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Sana Ali's avatar

Oh absolutely, she is the epitome in many ways of the word

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Ellina Sukh's avatar

This spoke to my soul

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Sana Ali's avatar

I'm so glad. The list sort of flowed out of me and felt very true.

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B Jones's avatar

Agree with all of these!

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Sana Ali's avatar

:):)

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Jill Raisig's avatar

Perfect!!!!!

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Sana Ali's avatar

Glad you enjoyed it Jill!

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Robyn Perry Coe's avatar

Love list

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Lola's avatar

good list !

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Sana Ali's avatar

Thanks Aly! 🥰

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Jennifer Blair's avatar

Love this in-depth post - just invigorating and amazing photos loved how they corespondended with each section in the post so well explain 🙂💕

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Maria Hyde's avatar

Sana, this is such a beautiful list of chic things and I especially loved your anecdote at the start!! I feel like I could visualize the chic woman you were inspired by and her well curated home/life through your words. Signature clothing, homes with character, respecting those working in the service industry, and good manners are high up on my list, too!! x

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Sana Ali's avatar

I'm so glad you enjoyed it. I've thought of that woman often and so glad I got to recount my experience here :).

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